Friday, January 24, 2014

Kid Update


Besides jumping on the new trampoline the kids have been busy getting back into the swing of things at school, the girls are looking forward to starting a dance class with a girl in our ward who is generously sharing her love of dance with a group of young girls in our ward for a very reasonable price.  And, she will transport my girls there and back in exchange for me watching her little girl during the class (a little younger than Emma).  The girls will also begin MAD friday this coming week for the spring and they are excited for that.
On the trampoline
Now that all 4 kids have Otter stuffed animals (Jonas got one for Christmas and Emma got Lillian's hand-me-down) they are very thrilled about them.  They also still bathe all together sometimes for simplicity (or at least controlled chaos) and just because they think it's fun.  I'm sure soon they will outgrow these things, but they are fun while they last
4 otter pups with 4 otters

Rub a dub dub four kids in a tub

Jocelyn had "Dr. Seuss" day at school and had to dress up as a Dr. Seuss character.  Because we barely remembered the morning of, we came up with this in about 10 minutes.  Not too shabby considering the time crunch!  Jocelyn also attended a "Great to be 8" fireside at church for all the children who will be turning 8 this year. The purpose of the meeting was to prepare them for baptism and what to expect in the coming year as far as church goes.  My neighbor watched the younger 3 kids so Jared and I could go with her and make it a special outing together.  I also had to give a talk about baptism/the Holy Ghost so the kids helped me prepare handouts, etc. and visuals for that.  I can't believe my baby will be 8 this year!!  She's continues to be a helpful and responsible young lady.
Jocelyn for Dr. Seuss day
  Jocelyn looked so cute one morning on the way to school.  She was wearing the ear band I brought her as a souvenir from Boston and her new backpack and shoes she got for Christmas, but she was being a stinker and wouldn't pose for a picture.
Jocelyn before school
When we came back from Boston, Lillian began the following day by telling me that she "had used up all her good behavior for Nana and she would not be able to be obedient that day.  And, she stuck to her word!! She was terrible especially all morning and just worn out by afternoon!!  The little stinker!  She is doing ok in kindergarten and her reading is REALLY improving.  She seems to really enjoy reading and still valiantly mothers Emma in every way she can. This week at school they've been studying penguins and reading the "Tacky the Penguin" books so we checked some out at the library for her along with her BOB books and Elephant and Piggie books.  She was thrilled this morning when she got to wear this outfit to school for "tacky" day.  I basically let her pick out whatever she wanted to wear and then didn't have to correct or encourage appropriate changes to her ensemble like I usually need to do when she goes out in public.  We french braided one half of her hair and did a pig tail on the other half (at her request) with all sorts of accessories and colors.  Too fun!

Lillian dressed for "tacky" day

Jonas is loving being back in preschool and the other day his teacher texted me with her favorite Jonas quote of the day. 
Teacher (as Jonas has climbed onto her table): "Jonas, does your mommy let you climb on the table at home? Because we don't do that here."
Jonas (with a sly grin): "She does when she's not home!"
This guy may or may not be related to his Dad and is pretty clever at talking himself out of a predicament.  Jonas is also getting better at getting himself dressed and shows off his new ability by sneaking into his room and changing into Pajamas right before we need to pick up the girls from school and I am occupied changing Emma's diaper and other such lovely timing.  I am trying to tell him I am so excited for his new found ability and he needs to be using it at the right time, like when I ask him in the morning to "get ready for the day" (when he often chooses any other activity BESIDES getting ready) rather than when we need to be walking out the door.  We'll hopefully get there.  Jonas also started attending "sunbeams" at church and couldn't be more thrilled with himself.  He is so proud how he goes to primary with the big kids (and apparently goes and sits himself down by the bedell boys-age 8 -instead of his own class) and is even improving in recognizing letters (still struggles with numbers) and coloring in the lines instead of huge scribbles.

Proud of himself after getting dressed in his ninja turtles shirt
Emma, on the other hand, is a monster!!  Probably just because she is less supervised as a 4th child, or maybe just her personality, but she gets into everything in the blink of an eye.  She is a well practiced dumpster diver so we always have to check on what she is eating. She still eats everything in sight and still sleeps really well so I can hardly complain, but I just worry about her safety at times!  One day Jared handed her some garbage and said "Emma, can you throw this away, please?" Emma cautiously looked at him while walking to the garbage and, with Jared's encouragement, lifted the lid and threw the item away.  She was proud of herself and also a little shocked we were telling her to put something in there instead of getting her in trouble for taking things out of there.  He probably just opened a whole new can of worms and we'll be losing valuable belongings to the trash can with her help, but that's all part of having a toddler, I suppose.

My dumpster diver
A couple months ago Jared got this play structure on freecycle and has since power washed it, painted it and added the roof and traded swings out (from our previous set up).  We moved our old one to our neighbor's yard since they wanted it. I wish the kids would play on it more.  They mostly take advantage of it when friends are over, but it has a big capacity for kids crawling all over it and Jared fixed it up so it looks really great.
The "new" swingset


New Years and Impromptu trip to Boston

We were able to spend New Year's Eve at my aunt and uncle's house. Several of my cousins were in town so it was fun to see them.  Later that week we were able to celebrate my cousin's wedding with them and see my sister and parents for a split second while they were there. So fun to catch up with everyone and see the cousins playing.
Cait and Jess with girls
Kids with noise makers
Fiesta food!
Ryan and Brittany's wedding
Cousins dancing at the wedding party

On Friday that week Jared found out that he would need to go to Boston in order to represent wagner blecher at an event where one of their clients would be presenting their product to the public.  His boss said that he wasn't really interested in going so maybe Jared could take me along, and that the firm would cover the cost.  I told Jared initially that it was a whole lot to plan and arrange for only a few days of freezing cold weather, but we both agreed we couldn't pass up a free trip together.  My parents kindly came down to hold down the fort here and I hired a girl in our ward on semester break from college to be the chauffeur for the week. Several friends offered to watch kids for the day, and take them for play dates so I tried to arrange everything so my mom wouldn't have to handle all four kids together all day or take them out and about.  It sounded like they all did really well here and we had an AMAZING time in Boston.


On the flight




At the hotel after shopping KID-FREE

Walking around Boston Harbor


Bundling up on our walk to Dinner

Faneuil Hall right by the hotel

At body world's vital



We kept joking that we were going on a reverse vacation...From the warm to the cold.  There was a polar vortex happening back East and we were in the middle of it!  Brrr. I quickly realized that here in CA we wear scarves and jackets for accessories and back East they wear them for REALS!  Boston common was only a mile from our hotel so I figured I'd walk to it one day while Jared was out and about working.  I barely survived. I had to duck into a Starbucks halfway there to defrost, bundle up again and brave the rest of the trip.  Another day when Jared was working from the hotel I went out and got us some lunch and brought it back.  Then I told him I was going to explore and check back in with him.  After a couple hours he called and said "Is everything ok? I haven't heard from you..." I told him "heck yeah!  I am just shopping at Faneuil Hall KID FREE!!" I got souvenirs for the kids and of course missed them, but it was so great to sleep when we wanted, eat what we wanted (since it was on the company dime) and go where we wanted without accounting for any little one's needs.  We walked around Boston Harbor, went to an Imax movie at the aquarium, we went to Body Worlds Vital, went out to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse, shopping at Faneuil hall, went to a race photo exhibit at Suffolk University and just relaxed.  It was such a great break.  And, it was the first time in the past 8 years that I wasn't pregnant or nursing (with the exception of 5 months in between Lillian and Jonas).  Such a great break and so grateful to all my friends and family who took care of everything at home so I could just enjoy my time with Jared instead of worrying about kiddos!  We came back refreshed and ready to face the rest of the school year.

When we came back we celebrated my 32nd birthday.  Jared took good care of me...cooked me breakfast and let me hire Cybill Pace to drive my kids to all their obligations so I could stay home and get some things crossed off my to-do list. He also got some thai food takeout on the way home so I didn't have to cook and, best of all, I caught up with friends and family who called and texted.

House Projects and answered prayer

Over the holidays we were able to squeeze in some house projects that we are very excited about.  We carpeted and painted the rest of the upstairs, we added in a pantry cabinet in the kitchen/dining area, we painted and replaced the trim around the kitchen window, painted the back door and side door, painted cabinets in the laundry room.  It finally feels like all our work is coming together, a little bit.  That maybe, in a small way, we we are chipping away at the mountain of house projects before us.  We still need to paint the laundry room and bathroom as well as install new trip and flooring, but here is a step in the right direction. I failed to get a good "before" picture so here is a half way picture. Just imagine the side door and the whole cabinet being dark, dingy wood that would give you slivers when you touched it. I still want to improve the home decor and we still have quite a bit to paint, but compared to what we walked into. This is huge for us (especially having a baby in the middle of it all).

Laundry room half way through
Laundry room cabinet and door painted
Back door before (half with the panels, half without)

Back Door after
New kitchen pantry/cabinet

Family room before
Family room after
Office before

Office now

Dining Room Before

Dining and family Room Before
Dining Room After

Family room after


Kids closet before
Kids closet now (doors are still being painted with one last coat in the garage)

Stairs before

Stairs Before
Stairs after with christmas decor



Toy room/hallway before


Hallway after

Toy Room after
We had been saving up to install the carpet we bought the week we moved in, to put in the rest of upstairs. Due to the domino effect of house projects we hadn't been able to put it in until now.  I.e.:  Before you can put in carpet you have to tear out old carpet, have money to pay a carpet layer, and you have to paint the walls. Before you can paint the walls you have to remove furniture, paint the trim and prep the walls.  Before you can prep the walls and re-texture struggle areas you have to tear down the old wallpaper and sand down the struggle ares.  Before you can tear down old wallpaper you have to remove old trim and find time and money to do so.  You get the idea.  Anyhow...Before we had our sisters in town we thought it would be a good chance to put in the carpet.  Jared has been prepping in various ways for this and then hired a carpet layer off of craigslist.  We were now up against a deadline so I hired our neighbor girl to come help with kids and assist with painting so we could paint the hallway and toy room after Jared and I had painted trim the night before.  Jared tore out all the old carpet and padding and put in the new padding late that night.  We were all set up...only to have the carpet layer not show up. He was a couple hours late and we were getting desperate so I got down on my knees and prayed.  "I know this sounds silly, but we really need a carpet layer.  We have all this exposed tack strip with little kids, furniture, etc. all askew and company coming into town tomorrow and a concerned husband who has worked hard to pull this all together.  Please!! Send me a carpet layer"  Well, within the hour Jared felt inspired to call another carpet layer on craigslist who showed up at our door. He was this super christian guy and only listened to christian music and talked about his church.  At the end of the day I told him he was an answer to prayer and he responded that he had been praying for work during this holiday season so we answered each other's prayers! It was pretty amazing to have an experience like that and it is soooo nice to have new carpet everywhere!

Holidays and Family Pictures

We drove up to my parent's house Christmas afternoon to spend a few days with them and the 3 siblings I had in town.  We also celebrated my mom's 60th birthday with some family friends.  At the end of December we came back home to spend some time enjoying the new Christmas haul, working on house projects and seeing some of my extended family.  It was a good balance of Family time, hosting visitors, traveling and having some down time.  I don't think any of us got overwhelmed with any one component, on top of which nobody got sick (miracle of miracles), so we really had an enjoyable holiday.
The girls always love seeing their Aunt Kelsey
Mom's Birthday dinner party
At my parent's house we met back up with the Tituses, along with Kelsey and Nate & Tausha.  All three cousins who were born last November were there together toddling around and they were TOO cute!!  All three together formed the official "Dog Harassment Commitee."  They all loved Luke and since Luke is such an old man now and appreciates his solitude, he would go hide up in my parent's bedroom for solace.  I think we only had one little nip where Luke was responding to a tail pull and no blood drawn even then!  The little squirts! We fit all of us in my parent's house and although it was crowded, it was fun to be there together.
Scooter rides
3 cousins
3 November babies photo shoot
Emma and Marcus having their snack one night

One of the nights we were all there, USU had a game on TV so we all had "game food" (aka junk food) for dinner and put on our aggie gear to cheer them on. Christopher even built a lego tower spelling out "Aggies" to show his spirit!
Christopher with Lego tower

Nate and Ethan cheering on the aggies

 Since Jared and Jeff are so handy with wood and tools, and the rest of us are willing to work whether we know what we're doing or not, and Kevin was willing to fund the project, we built a deck for my mom over the period of a couple days.  The old deck had been there over 20 years and was getting a little dangerous for mom to step in certain places.  They removed the old deck, built in a new (almost) identical deck and added a hand rail down one of the steps.  It turned out so great!  Everyone pitched in in their own ways and it was fun to see the transformation.

The boys desperately trying to get outside to help with the project.  I tried to keep them occupied and fed inside
Everyone pitching in removing the old deck
Building the new deck-two chief contributors
Everyone with the finished product
 Nate's wife, Tausha, is very artistically talented and kindly used her abilities and time to take family pictures for the the Tituses and us.  Thank you Tausha!!
Titus Family
Otterstrom Family







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